Mirage....

I got an interesting insight while talking to my sister, during one of our our "philosophical" discussions!
I had asked her if it is wrong to be want to be happy and go after whatever makes you happy! And here is what she had to say.....

"I firmly believe..and that belief convinced me to the core, that the conclusion of can some one find true happiness is NO. Its as simple as that! No one can truly ever be happy. We need to choose to be happy..and out of all the quotes, this one, I undoubtedly think is by far the most truthful!
Its just the bitter bitter truth that we need to be happy within the imperfections...If you have been unhappy for too long... its not because your life isnt treating you right at the moment..its cause you let your self be unhappy...its cause you gave up somewhere...lifes gonna treat you that way all the time...
temporarily changes will brings u happiness but very soon you ll find flaws in them too...its just human nature!

When man has no real afflictions he invents some!..we are the most fucked up species! every good thing comes with a price... insanity is the price we pay for intelligence! I believe we should accept what we cant change..and change what we cant accept but beleive me some changes are just aint worth it!
again only because...u make the change seeking bliss...which doesnt last! DOESNT!
One wonders they are where they are because their past decisions might have been wrong...10 yrs from now..the decision he makes today will make him wonder the same.
Where ever you will stand in 5 yrs from now... u ll still keep looking for what u searching now. We are trapped that is true...but not by the social norms or ethics...we are just prisoner or our own thoughts....and we will be! You just got to control your mind..dont let it control you!"

She goes on to say that life is like a mirage...you always see things you want to see out there, standing here; but the moment you walk up to it to get it, you realise that, that never existed and just isn't there! So you start searching for something new and again you might see it, not realising that it could have the same consequence !


(written on Friday, September 25, 2009)